That doesn't mean we should strive to lose, but I once had a great business coach who told me that if you want to succeed, you had to fail faster. I believe it was Earl Nightingale who said, "The degree of success you have is directly related to the difficulty of the questions you ask yourself."
Looking at the balance of life lessons as a tapestry, and admitting where we were wrong is a huge part of making the adjustments we need to make to have a fulfilled life.
I spend 1/2 hour every morning in quiet time, and I ask my higher power for guidance. I thank him for my yesterday and pray that today will be a good day for me. I list my gratitudes and ask for strength for my failings. "Bring kindness, peace and light into my soul," is usually what I end my prayer with. And then I try to remember this during the day. Especially when I fail.
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I still love the quote: We over estimate what we can do in a day and underestimate what we can do in a year. Patience. Content with what I do have, not focused on what I don't have. Progress not perfection. Working hard so that when it is my turn, I am fully ready. Making good choices.
I'm grateful that I get to live in a place where I have the opportunity to even think about these things and have so many choices. Millions of people in this world would love to switch places with me. I'm not going to waste this gift.
Great wisdom and I love the quotes.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Debra. Nice to see you here again!
DeleteSome wonderful and useful advice.
ReplyDeleteI thank him for my yesterday...... something we all should do.
First time here and a good one Sharon :-)
Great to see you here and I definitely want you to come back! In fact, I'd be grateful!!
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The never-ending battle to be grateful and acknowledge disappointments.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, they are related, aren't they?
DeleteI love your perspective on not wasting the gifts you have been given. I feel the same way, with a thankful heart.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Stephen. So nice to see you here. I'll be following you, too.
DeleteWonderful post and reminder to everyone. I think people would be far happier if they could focus on the things they had instead of what they still wanted. Not to say that having goals should fall by the wayside, but enjoy what one has.
ReplyDeleteShannon at The Warrior Muse, co-host of the 2012 #atozchallenge! Twitter: @AprilA2Z
Thanks, Shannon, O Warrior Muse. I agree with that description, BTW. We must through everything, like a good warrior does. We just don't get the kilt and battle cries. But we do get the blood!
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Thanks, Sharon, for this tapestry of reminders to be grateful for our yesterdays and our today. Think I'll go chill with your words of living with what we have.
ReplyDeleteHey, thanks so much, Robin. Those are Kent's tablecloths from France.
ReplyDeleteSo much habit in focusing on the hole and not the donut. And in my case, I can't focus on either!!
Nice to see you here.
Well said, Sharon, I really do like the thought process you have used here -and well expressed! ~R-
ReplyDeleteWhy thank you! Nice to see you here.
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